In 2004, my life took an unimaginable turn with the sudden loss of my husband and twin daughter. But today, as I see my two surviving daughters (ages 5 and 9 at the time of the crash) living happily and my first grandchild on the way, I can’t help but feel a deep sense of purpose in guiding others through their unique grief journeys.

What you may not realize is that through the seasons, I’ve had to learn new ways to navigate the changing landscape. Early on in the ‘Fresh Grief’ stage, I did everything I could to protect my young surviving daughters, but I soon realized that a mother’s love couldn’t shield us from all the pain. Today, as I navigate the ’empty nester’ grief, I’m learning new ways to embrace the things I can’t control. Having walked alongside my daughters through various seasons of grief and life’s milestones, I’ve gained invaluable insights and understanding.

I won’t sugarcoat it- it was tough. There were so many times when I felt like giving up, when suicidal thoughts clouded my mind; it took so much courage to get help. I had to confront some brutal demons. PTSD, anger, loss of faith, and depression all threatened to consume me.

With God by my side and many guiding lights along my journey, I found the strength to pick up the pieces and forge a new path.

In a world that often fails to grasp the profoundness of loss, I am here to guide you in honoring “your unique grief journey” and embracing the fullness of life, even amidst heartache. 

This is not easy... I know; I’ve been living without my daughter Brittany for 19 years…